[{"data":1,"prerenderedAt":44},["ShallowReactive",2],{"stoicism-article-10/18":3},{"path":4,"stem":5,"title":6,"description":7,"meta":8,"body":24},"/stoicism/10/18","stoicism/10/18","Frenemies","Meditation for October 18, 2021",{"quotes":9,"last_updated_at":15,"tags":16,"categories":20,"changeFreq":22,"backgroundImage":23},[10],{"quote":11},{"content":12,"author":13,"source":14},"There’s nothing worse than a wolf befriending sheep. Avoid false friendship at all costs. If you are good, straightforward, and well-meaning it should show in your eyes and not escape notice.","Marcus Aurelius","Meditations, 11.15","2021-10-18T16:54:00",[17,18,19],"stoicism","virtue","kindness",[21,17],"meditation","never","/DuWoob8-Tsi0zjd9b9TxcQ.jpg",{"type":25,"value":26,"toc":40},"minimark",[27,31,34,37],[28,29,30],"p",{},"As usual, I read the words of Marcus Aurelius several times and found in this case the message was simple and\nobvious.",[28,32,33],{},"Then I read The Daily Stoics authors message, which was to flip this around.",[28,35,36],{},"How often have I been the wolf. I had to hang my head in shame. What is in my natural programming that I can enjoy\nbeing with family or friends, then gossip about them as soon as we part? Such a wolf move.",[28,38,39],{},"The true message of Stoicism is about being virtuous. About being true to not only others but yourself. Such a great\nreminder whenever I feel I have been slighted by family or friends.",{"title":41,"searchDepth":42,"depth":42,"links":43},"",2,[],1793716907297]