“When children stick their hand down a narrow goody jar they can't get their full fists out and start crying. Drop a few treats and you will get it out! Curb your desire - don't set your heart on so many things and you will get what you need.”
- Epictetus, Discourses, 3.9.22
February 28, 2021 7:00 AM
American culture teaches us that with hard work "we can have it all". Modern America has provided us the means to not only have it all but have it all instantly. Missing are lessons in patience and contentment.
We are rarely reminded to ask Do I need this or do I want this? What are the consequences if I don't get this? Am I able to survive without this?
Conclusion
The objective answer to those questions will often be NO. This will result in the loss of immediate pleasure. Happiness will be attained when we answer yes to all of those questions.